This server right here is the server you are looking for if you don't want to be surrounded with complicated mods and want to be a part of a wonderful and warm community.
We like to keep it nice and easy. Here you don't die from other players which means no PvP. The staff is picked after hard thinking and is ready to help at any situation possible.
There is a server website which gives you all information needed when you join. You can also post a forum post if you want to suggest something new on the server or just post a funny youtubelink.